A taste of aerial wonder (Decasalarin, Baler)

            Weddings nowadays is not a joke. It will not just be physically exhausting but also financially as well and you all are aware of that. The average Philippine weddings for now ranges from 200k to 600k and take note: these are considered as "average"! While you are working on your budget, it is a common norm now that you should include a more considerable amount to your videographer/photographer. Documenting your most special day in the most artistic and eloquent way as possible is a must as this document will last more than your lifetime and you are giving a chance the next generation to come to have a glimpse of your wedding day (chills)! So, better invest on your videographer!

            Philippines is composed of 7,100 plus islands. Truth is, you need to take advantage of this scenario. The Philippines is considered as one of Asia’s top tourist destinations and one of the major reason was: its pristine beaches. Beaches will surely be a perfect location for your shoots as you are entitled to many options for your theme. You can have sunsets/sunrise, boat rides, rock formations, and of course, breath-taking aerial shots. Nothing new with this blog but little tips again on how to do your shoot in a beach.

1.       Advance booking. Not all of the beaches in the Philippines are developed. You may even find it weird but the best ones are still yet to be discovered. Most of them aren’t ran by a developer but only mostly by caretakers. Once you’re done picking a spot, make sure you pay it a visit in advance or make a call to properly confirm your schedule. You don’t want to end up sending your photographers team back home just because the road might be under construction or so.

2.       Be there an evening before the shoot. We strongly suggests that you arrive at the location the evening before. This will give you enough rest and proper adjustment to the surroundings. Don’t arrive in the morning or afternoon as well. You don’t want to show those tan lines at the shoot right?

3.       Store some strength. Take some physical preparations as your shoot might include climbing, walking, or hiking just to be at your most perfect spot. Being on top of the hill usually makes a perfect aerial view. These, you don’t want to miss!

4.       Ask “Kuya Kim”. Weather consideration has to be emphasized. You don’t want to do your shoot while knowing that there is a low pressure area on board. The drones that your photographer use aren’t really wind friendly. Or they don’t want to take your pictures while a tsunami alert is on either! Check the weather forecast for the whole year and you can simply identify which months are less likely to have weather disturbance.

5.       Discuss the theme to your team. Be aware that your photographer is working on a theme that you want (and that’s why you paid them). You don’t want to keep them guessing all the time. Discuss with them the outfits that you have, how you want it to be portrayed. Pro’s already have an idea in mind how they do shoots but you don’t want to end up appearing like the other wedding shoot you saw on their gallery yesterday right? You seek uniqueness and that is the name of the game.

6.       FOOD. It is on caps and yes I mean it. You might be following a strict diet plan since your day is approaching but your photographer’s team and crew aren’t. The best way to motivate them deliver good results is to make them dream of their dinner at 12 noon.

7.       Inhale, Exhale. Take this opportunity to relax. Your big day is coming very soon and all your hard work will pay off. Consider this as your day off after the shoot. Free your mind from suppliers list, guest’s lists, caterer’s requests, reception decors etc. This is that day where you can sober up and meditate. You don’t go to beach everyday anyway so, grab the chance. Who knows, your fiancé might need a break too?


The main reason for our prenup shoot (again) in Philippines was actually to be an ice-breaker
between us and our videographer. We feel that we have to meet them before the actual day so
we can know them better and also develop rapport. And we were never wrong.

We had our shoot again in a place called Decasalarin, Baler, Aurora. It was a 4 hr drive from
our place (Gapan, Nueva Ecija). It was one hot summer day and while on the trip itself, it was
already fun.I also brought my mom and other family members with me so they can have fun 
as well. We just arrived on our way inside the resort when we were suddenly stopped by a 
group of men saying that the  road was under construction and there was no way for us to go 
inside the beach. I told them i will be willing to walk just to make that trip complete and 
fortunately, my husband was able to rent a motorized banca which will take us to the same 
location. We were finally able to start the shoot and despite all the obstacles, when you reach 
that tip of the hill, you will be mesmerized. Not just by the view but for by the entire beauty 
of nature as God has given us. We will share with you some aerial shoots (raw files). We 
highly recommend the place. It is quiet, modest, practical (around 150 php entrance per head)
 and of course, captivating. Below are some of our photos.

Prenuptial Photo shoot: is not just a pose ( Tips and advise)

          Prenup shoot is one of your pre-wedding recipes that must be done. Well, your bride-to-be surely wants to tell the world how fabulous she will be on her big day right? Grooms might have this feeling that it is just an extra ceremony which is not really important (especially when you were born in the 80's) but nowadays, it is a MUST! It will not only put your wedding into the map to your family and friends but actually, it is a good exercise for your soon-to-be tested patience & more patience.

          Being an OFW couple, we don't have that much time in the Philippines to do all the shoots needed. It means that somehow, we have to have that prenup shoot here (Kuwait) as a back up plan before we take our flight to Philippines for our grand day. This was one of the experiences that will make you get that advance feeling of your upcoming challenges or should i say hiccups. And just like our first blog, we have few tips for you to ponder upon.

          1. Always have a plan B. Things doesn't always work the way we want them to be. We might have had pictured ourselves on a shiny suit or a gown wearing your most authentic smile but, that is not a one shot deal. You have to come up with a direct option to go to plan B when things get out of hand using plan A.

          2. Not too close, yet not so far. I am referring to the date of your prenup shoot. The most ideal date as what almost everybody suggest is around 2-3 months before your actual wedding day. This will also allow your guests to manage their schedules well and book their tickets earlier (at a more affordable price). This will also allow you to properly build the "hype" at a pace that is just enough to make your family and friends up-to-date without them being "irritated" of your daily dose of posts.

          3. Never procrastinate. What you can do now, just do it now. That is why it is called "YOUR" prenup shoot it is because it will be all about you and your partner. Be right on track on every aspect of your preparation as you planned because before you might notice it: that day already arrived.

          4. Theme matters. Your shoot is not a click&go affair. Its not a simple camera shot and photo collages. It should have a deeper meaning for it to make sense. It should somehow reflect your story and your partner. It should somewhat give a hint on how you two met? It might somewhat give people an idea how your upcoming wedding will look like. Depending on your taste, there should be a theme that will be consistent all throughout.

          5. Checklist. From your props to your slightest make up, you should be able to tick them all up before you go to shoot. Shoots aren't usually done near your backyard so if you happen to miss one, it means that your entire concept might be in jeopardy.

          6. Be with "Darla". Do not go to shoot thinking you can do all. You cant just simply manage everything on your own. Make sure that you have someone to assist you on your make up and your outfits. You must be with someone who can provide assistance with care and compassion. You don't have to hire a pro. A close friend will do.

          7. Have a good night sleep. The most perfect photos comes from a perfect body rest. When you are properly rested, your smile will simply show it all. Remember that each photo says a thousand meaning and being in a yawning mood wont help.


We came up short on our first attempt for the prenup shoot but luckily, our photographer was patient enough to give it another shot. And eventually, upon learning from our first experience, we were able to do much better on our second attempt. Below were our photos during our prenup shoot held in Kuwait.

Your engagement proposal: tips & guides

       Multimedia platforms are all over the place. No one can live nowadays without their respective facebook, twitter, or instagram accounts. It’s considered as a part of our daily routine now and bad news grooms, your wife-to-be is an avid fan of sweet, unique, and voluptuous proposals. She will always compare herself to those “lucky” girls and mind you, during her astounding noisy/silent days, she was waiting for you to do the same! My wife was no different so last December 17, 2015 I decided to make her dream into reality. But before i take you to my “proposal-proper” experience, let me put emphasis on some points that will help you out on your planned proposal as listed below:

       1. Surprise. Your proposal will not be a proposal without the element of surprise. Believe it or not, its not the grandeur of your spectacle but the way you made her believe that its not a day for you to propose. That’s why your circle of friends plays a vital role here. You should make it appear like there is nothing out of the ordinary going on. Don’t make her lose that momentum of “waiting” for your proposal otherwise, you will blow the entire plan.

       2. Venue. It plays a crucial role but of course it depends on you and your wife-to-be’s personality. You might both want a crowded place, a private place, or a little bit of both. You must know and consider your venue since you are suppose to do something with utmost sincerity.She must feel you specially when you pop that big question. If not, chances are, she might think twice!

       3.Try something not you. Successful proposals usually tries something different from who you are to her. What i basically mean here is that do something she was not expecting you doing. This is a very effective way of making her feel that you are far more than ready to do “everything” (excluding those which are out of your comfort zone) for her.If you are a guitar player, try to do a dance number and the likes.

       4. Only the trusted. Accidents happen. Beware. Only speak to those whom you have full trust regarding the plan. Unfortunately, there are those people who, even unintentionally makes her suspect that something is going to happen. We don’t want that to happen. (Refer back to number 1)

       5. Believe in your plan. I know you are already sick of hearing this but still, we need to go back to basic. The first person who should know that your plan will be a success is you and nobody else! Bear in mind that there is no perfect plan (aside from His plan) so be ready with oppression physically, mentally and emotionally. You should know from within you that your plan will work because you love her and you want to spend the rest of your life with her.

       6. It’s the sincerity. The only rule of thumb for all proposals. You should deliver that message of sincerity because after this, there is no going back. Don’t forget that men propose because we are already decided, prepared, and ready for the next stage. And if you still have doubts on yourself and on your relationship, please don’t waste everybody’s time! Proposals are rated on your sincerity and not on the size of the ring nor the amount you are willing to spend. What matter here is your sincerity which will in turn make them say the magic word “YES”!

       7. Documentation. This is where you should put that investment in (aside from the engagement ring). You should be able to find someone who is a pro. Enough that will make your video and photos worthwhile. This is something that you can treasure for the rest of your life so don’t be shy and put that dollars in!

       Those were the tips that we can share  based on our experience. Now as promised, i will share you how i did mine. Me and my friends had a little more than a week to prepare. Venue was done in a rooftop building of my friends place where me and wife use to go before. She knows that i was doing overtime in my office with my boss and ill meet her there and let one of my friend pick her up. We are total 7 guys who made things happen. We designed the rooftop with lights and balloons and flowers and all its accolades. And the moment she opened the door, i was there waiting with a bouquet of flowers. I made it simple yet she felt the effort and sincerity. She seemed to have no other choice but to say yes (grins)! Below are some photos and the link to our video proposal.

Below is the proposal video link. 

https://www.facebook.com/chongkipunkninja88/videos/vb.1304700390/10205123514709882/?type=3&theater

Till next time. Feel free to comment and/or share.